I have come across situations and experiences where things always happened on their own free will and that I attribute to one's own fate!
We want to change the course of our fate but no matter what we try, we are bound to go by the already shaped fate, isn't it?
They say fate and destiny is what we make of than why do we have regrets if we make our fate/destiny ourselves? (So the question can we really change our fate?)
Though I want to hold on to the topic a little longer i have to rush, will continue next time...:)